Would probably tell you they’re a great Dad if pressed on the topic.
These same great Dads will also talk about where they aren’t so great. Times when they messed up. Coming up short. Their struggles. Worries. Fears.
So maybe it sounds like this — “Definitely not perfect. Always trying to get better. But there is no one else on Earth better suited for this job with these kids in this family than me.”
That seems like the right way to think about it.
